Do You Have to Wait for Angel Wings Sometimes...........

It's that time of year. It will be 4 years since God took Korry up to Heaven in a couple weeks. I am so teary over so much. My meds only work up to a point. (which I am happy about .... I don't want to be numb).  Seems like every time I get alone I start to cry. Whether it is in the car or alone at night after Jazsper has gone to bed. Sometimes it is so overwhelming when I think of the loss of my wonderful Korry. But as I mentioned the other day, angels/wings have been so noticeable.  Driving home I often start talking to Korry and look to the sky and I will see rays of sun coming out of whatever clouds are up in the sky, and I know its her sending her love.  But something odd happened yesterday. I was driving home, crying of course, and started telling Korry how much I love and miss her. Well when I look up to the sky there were very few clouds, Certainly none thick enough to block the sun. But one cluster of wispy clouds stood out from all the rest.  I know I have a vivid imagination, but this was crazy. The cloud looked like a cross between a side few of an angel and a butterfly. It was absolutely amazing. And the more I cried the more distinct the cloud became of an angel. And it stayed in the sky almost the whole way home, until I could get my tears under control. I know it was Korry sending love.
It made me wonder... when people die, does it take a while to become an actual angel? Is there something you have to do in Heaven to get your wings? Is there a "waiting period" of sorts. I only wonder since I had never had this many angel/wings going on before, and now they abound. I find it exciting!
On another note, Jazsper was kinda quiet eating his dessert with me the other night. I asked him what was going on and he asked how old Papa was. I told him 68. and he said so what comes after that? I answered 69, 70. He said with teary eyes, so he is almost 100??? I smiled at him and said no, Papa had a long way to go. I realized at that time what the problem was. My uncle who was 82 recently died, of old age and a worn out body. Jazsper was worried that Papa was going to die soon, too because he is "old". He climbed on my lap and cried. poor baby. I explained Papa is in good shape and not that old and he would be around for a long time.... he calmed down after a few minutes and went back to his ice cream.... how sad he is that he is so worried about death now. most kids at 6 don't even think about it....
Our lives are so different from other people's. Not that they don't have tragedies or problems, it is just different.
So Sad today......

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