It's just plain HARD
Here we are at the start of a new year. I have to start by saying, I am grumpy, sad and really tired of being this way. It has been brought to my attention (by my counselor) that I am caring for those around me, but in return, I have no one to comfort me. As I have discussed before, my husband wants to shut it away and not mention it, so I really can't turn to him. Kelsey struggles enough herself, I don't need to add to it. So that leaves me alone. I have not snapped out of this season of struggle like I normally do. I suppose it is compounded this year, and just hard to break thru to see the light at the end of the tunnel. Paul has always tried to make me happy, to see my needs and take care of them. To keep me afloat. Well with his brother dying almost a year ago, Paul's depression has worsened. He struggles so much himself that he can't see beyond it. Understandable, but just adding to my struggles because I worry about him, and because his behavior has changed to ...