Grieving Mother.. the journey through Life after my Daughter died

What a royal pain. I understand that these bonding companies are concerned about their money. But all of them require we have an attorney to handle things. They want the attorney to have to approve any actions with the estate money bank account for Jazsper. It is nuts. As I have expressed, that would just take money from Jazsper's account. I truly don't understand how the bond company can require more than what the court orders. I have spoken to quite a few companies and it is always the same. I did find one yesterday, that I talked to a bit and told him our circumstances, and he is trying to work the bond out for us. We will see. I just can't comprehend a person being placed as a conservator over someone's money, and then stealing it. That is just awful. But it must happen, otherwise there would not be so many hoops to jump thru. It just makes me sad all over again. Why can't this last part move easily??

I went to a hearing at the Probate Judge this week to finalize the closing of Korry's Estate. Mixed emotions. I am really glad to get that part of this horrific accident taken care of. But at the same time it breaks my heart that we even have an estate. I have decided that I am really glad that we didn't have a lawsuit over the accident. Have I mentioned about that? Well, in case not... The man who hit her died as well. The truck he was driving was never identified as belonging to anyone, the license plate was for a different vehicle, supposedly owned by the man. The VIN was unidentifiable after the fire. If the man had any sort of life insurance or anything else, the attorney never found out. (the attorney was pretty much useless!) His estranged wife and 3 kids may have gotten something, but I did not feel right taking from them, but the attorney never really followed up on anything either way... so there was no finances received from the accident. After going thru all this ...